I've invested a lot of time over the last year holding open doors for my career, writing, studying business models and the like, and again and again I've come up against the secret of focus. To do one thing at a time is better and more productive than spreading yourself thin. It is in the spirit of this advice that I am officially and intentially taking a hiatus from the blog and podcast. 

I've committed to making two films over the next year and a half, as well as (hopefully) publishing my long term writing projects, some of which I have worked on for at least several years. There is so much work and planning for this site that never sees the light of day because it doesn't get the attention it needs. My plan is to put things on hold for now, and come back at a time when I can give undivided (or at least less divided) attention to teaching. 

Thanks for sticking with me this far. While the hiatus will go for at least six months on the blog, podcast, and youtube channel, you can still follow me on twitter in the meantime: 

I'll be posting updates on my writing and film projects on twitter for those interested in following along. Thanks again and keep writing! 



and then...listen

When was the last time that you felt heard?

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and then...pacing

I'm going to write this blog post in twenty minutes.

Almost anything you have planned in your day, especially those things that you'd rather not do, can be done in twenty minutes or less if you treat it as a mild act of meditation. 

Since everything is an act of balance, you need only balance the two opposing methods to productivity. On one side you have the masculine approach, that is, to enter problem-solving mode, wherein one can focus on one thing only until that thing is resolved or completed. On the other (feminine) side of things, you can do this thing called "mult-tasking," which doesn't really exist, as the brain can not do more than one thing at a time. So what multi-tasking really entails is the ability to switch quickly between tasks without worrying whether they have reached completion.

Marrying these two energies just means that you have to completely focus on one thing for a preset amount of time, and be able to leave it unfinished when your time is up. 

Defining completion in a work of fiction is about the moment you reach the exhale, the contraction of the lungs. Stories are the act of respiration, particularly novels. They are sequences of build-up and catharsis. 

So you might not want to leave your work until you have finished a particular scene or cycle. Or even a line. Yet most novelists (myself included) will advise you to leave a writing session while you still have a solid idea of what happens next. This sets you up for the next writing session with confidence; it gives you a place to begin and, more importantly, it helps settle that pesky problem of continuity. 

Don't worry about what part of your piece you want to finish writing today. Rather, make a decision about how much time you're willing to spend on it. It will help you be present with the work. It will teach you about your own process, your abilities, and about what the work needs. You may find that you work through some pieces faster than others. You'll have a better understanding of what the act of writing actually means for you. 

Well, it hasn't been twenty minutes, but I think I've made my point here. I hope it's helpful. 


and then...omission

What I believe about originality.

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Dear Jack White

Dear Jack White,

More men like you! More creative, brave, honest, innocent, God-fearing gentlemen like you. That's what I like best.

I am so grateful for everything you do. Have you read Winnie-the-Pooh? I think you would like it. I think you would like my stories, too. Thank you, thank you!

Peace and Love,

Miss Ayah